gotta do what you gotta do.

life isn't only about trusting the process, but doing the process. it's about action. and sometimes that action is ugly. or it's not how you imagined it, but it's the process. so often, we adults talk about the finished product even when we know every day is a new step. everyday, we try to do … Continue reading gotta do what you gotta do.

the modest villain.

and you know, i'm not hung up on this about liberating myself from the Black man, i'm not going to try that thing. i got a Black husband, six feet three, two hundred and forty pounds, with a 14 shoe, that i don't want to be liberated from. but we are here to work side … Continue reading the modest villain.

HEAL.

i remember being on my podcast right after George Floyd was killed and the four other speakers spoke on how they felt and the actions they thought would and should happen. when it came time for me to give my perspective, like always, i didn't consider if others would like or dislike my opinion. "i … Continue reading HEAL.

the Joker Effect.

i know it's seems insensitive to talk about relationships at a time like this. but there's no better time to desire a partner and kids. you run around scrambling, sacrificing for a better place. but who makes sure you have a pillow for your head to lay? you carry all the loads because your back … Continue reading the Joker Effect.

i’m just a soul whose intentions are good.

i didn't have any control over how i look. making fun of me calling me ugly isn't going to hurt my feelings. and hyping me up telling me i look really good isn't going to make me feel extra good. i had absolutely no say in my looks. i take no offense to that. but … Continue reading i’m just a soul whose intentions are good.