cleaning out my closet.

we gotta check ourselves. i gotta check myself. i have to. we can quickly point out the flaws of others and tell them what they must do to make your life easier, but we can't look at ourselves and pinpoint what we must do to make those close to us and our loved ones happier … Continue reading cleaning out my closet.

Whatta Man

the definition of women and the definition of men are not counterparts. generally speaking, women is used for any female of age. "There are four women running for the presidency in 2020." "Women rights have come to the forefront in the 21st century." "I love women." casually speaking, when using the term women, people do … Continue reading Whatta Man

Straight Outta Compton.

Dear Momma, this is past due so let me jump straight in. you gave birth to me January 30th 1993. i was due on January 28th, same day as pops but you waited on me. then you gave me his name and your name. guess you didn't wanna be excluded from the name thing huh? … Continue reading Straight Outta Compton.

role modelz.

what do you know about politics? what do you know about relationships? what do you know about anything?? everything we know was learned. every single thing we know was taught and learned. by society, siblings, parents, teacher, YouTube, politicians, musicians. how you are in a relationship was learned. the things you do, how you treat … Continue reading role modelz.

AFROS AND LOCS AND BRAIDS, OH MY!!!!

hair matters to Black people, a lot. it is more than simple maintenance. it is a statement. expression. some people cut their hair or do whatever to their hair JUST for convenience. or JUST because it got longer. the average Black person (specifically a Black woman or Black man with longer hair) has 2 3 … Continue reading AFROS AND LOCS AND BRAIDS, OH MY!!!!