Bad boy bad boy… whatcha gonna do?

definitions are flipped every day now. a ho ain't a ho. masculinity is synonymous with toxic. ay yi yi. okay how do you define a bad boy? like, the term "i want a bad boy" bad boy. it shocks me, really. it also saddens me as to what some women and ultimately people define as … Continue reading Bad boy bad boy… whatcha gonna do?

role modelz.

what do you know about politics? what do you know about relationships? what do you know about anything?? everything we know was learned. every single thing we know was taught and learned. by society, siblings, parents, teacher, YouTube, politicians, musicians. how you are in a relationship was learned. the things you do, how you treat … Continue reading role modelz.

AFROS AND LOCS AND BRAIDS, OH MY!!!!

hair matters to Black people, a lot. it is more than simple maintenance. it is a statement. expression. some people cut their hair or do whatever to their hair JUST for convenience. or JUST because it got longer. the average Black person (specifically a Black woman or Black man with longer hair) has 2 3 … Continue reading AFROS AND LOCS AND BRAIDS, OH MY!!!!

Black Love is Revolutionary

Beyoncé "I will never LET you shoot the nose off my Pharoah." love is a choice. stop acting as if love is something you just get on accident. like it's the flu. something you came across. when you SHOOT YOUR SHOT, THAT WAS SOMETHING YOU DID DELIBERATELY. and if you made it, you pursued it, … Continue reading Black Love is Revolutionary

The Man Who Has Everything.

part 1. Christmas is tomorrow and the age old question "what should i get so and so..." is roaming. but what do you get the man who has everything? i was at work and a lady asked everyone what we were thankful for. they had specific responses. that's cool. when i was asked, my answer … Continue reading The Man Who Has Everything.