AFROS AND LOCS AND BRAIDS, OH MY!!!!

hair matters to Black people, a lot. it is more than simple maintenance. it is a statement. expression. some people cut their hair or do whatever to their hair JUST for convenience. or JUST because it got longer. the average Black person (specifically a Black woman or Black man with longer hair) has 2 3 … Continue reading AFROS AND LOCS AND BRAIDS, OH MY!!!!

Black Love is Revolutionary

Beyoncé "I will never LET you shoot the nose off my Pharoah." love is a choice. stop acting as if love is something you just get on accident. like it's the flu. something you came across. when you SHOOT YOUR SHOT, THAT WAS SOMETHING YOU DID DELIBERATELY. and if you made it, you pursued it, … Continue reading Black Love is Revolutionary

charge it to the game.

forgiveness is my key to happiness. forgiveness is my key to peace. we're all players in this game called life. i'm tryna get to another level. i can't get to higher levels if i don't forgive. just charge it to the game. of course there are things i don't particularly like or care for that … Continue reading charge it to the game.

love yourz.

remind yourself: nobody is built like you, you designed yourself. you must love yourself. you must love yourself. YOU. MUST. LOVE. YOURSELF. each word in that four word sentence is equally important. we are all built differently. some of us are tall. some are short. some are thin. some are big. but you gotta love … Continue reading love yourz.

4:44

who wants a perfect love story, anyway? cliche. when people ask "why do you like her? what qualities about her do you love? how is she different?" it's all kinda weird and hard to answer. what trumps it all is she liking you, you liking her and both values/experiences aligning. yeah she likes sports, but … Continue reading 4:44