AFROS AND LOCS AND BRAIDS, OH MY!!!!

hair matters to Black people, a lot. it is more than simple maintenance. it is a statement. expression. some people cut their hair or do whatever to their hair JUST for convenience. or JUST because it got longer. the average Black person (specifically a Black woman or Black man with longer hair) has 2 3 … Continue reading AFROS AND LOCS AND BRAIDS, OH MY!!!!

Black Love is Revolutionary

Beyoncé "I will never LET you shoot the nose off my Pharoah." love is a choice. stop acting as if love is something you just get on accident. like it's the flu. something you came across. when you SHOOT YOUR SHOT, THAT WAS SOMETHING YOU DID DELIBERATELY. and if you made it, you pursued it, … Continue reading Black Love is Revolutionary

The Man Who Has Everything.

part 1. Christmas is tomorrow and the age old question "what should i get so and so..." is roaming. but what do you get the man who has everything? i was at work and a lady asked everyone what we were thankful for. they had specific responses. that's cool. when i was asked, my answer … Continue reading The Man Who Has Everything.

what’s beef?

these cats don't know what beef is. people think beef is not liking someone. thinking beef is mutually respecting someone but acting the opposite when you get in the court or booth. thinking beef is IF you cross this line, it's a wrap but if you don't, it's all good. although i clearly see you … Continue reading what’s beef?

i am not your slave.

i am not your slave. i will not have you do for me what i can do for myself. i will not allow you to have control over me. my mind. my soul. my body. i am not your slave. i will not allow you to use me. you will not beat my body up … Continue reading i am not your slave.