a p o l o gize.

say sorry. it's time for you to do it. This is the thesis. we need to grow up, take accountability of our actions and apologize. we cannot claim to be grown and refuse to say "i'm sorry" to someone who is worth being in your life. period. even those who aren't in your life for … Continue reading a p o l o gize.

cleaning out my closet.

we gotta check ourselves. i gotta check myself. i have to. we can quickly point out the flaws of others and tell them what they must do to make your life easier, but we can't look at ourselves and pinpoint what we must do to make those close to us and our loved ones happier … Continue reading cleaning out my closet.

Say Hello To The Bad Guy.

people need people to point the finger at. to distract them and everyone else from their own flaws and faults and mistakes and mishaps. you're not better. you're not righteous. you're not different. you just hide. once we shift the conversation to others being difficult, we're no longer talking about what they're difficult about and … Continue reading Say Hello To The Bad Guy.

Victory Lap. 🏁

to all the freedom fighters and all the activists and all the lovers of culture, keep fighting. keep loving. keep actively working. this is hard. but you still have a job to do. we still have a job. there are going to be times that we are deflated. events and situations are going to occur … Continue reading Victory Lap. 🏁

Bad boy bad boy… whatcha gonna do?

definitions are flipped every day now. a ho ain't a ho. masculinity is synonymous with toxic. ay yi yi. okay how do you define a bad boy? like, the term "i want a bad boy" bad boy. it shocks me, really. it also saddens me as to what some women and ultimately people define as … Continue reading Bad boy bad boy… whatcha gonna do?