letter to future wife.

to my wife. there are going to be times you wish i didn't care so much about seeking justice. times you wish i didn't give so much time and energy towards a better life for people outside of our blood family. that will drive you insane. it will make you upset at times that i … Continue reading letter to future wife.

ain’t nobody praying for me.

what do you do when no one listens to you? what happens when you've been belittled and patronized by a society and country and people respond to you "it's not that bad. other parts of the world is worse"? what do you do when you've been told your style and appearance and whole existence is … Continue reading ain’t nobody praying for me.

PSA to all “I’m not like them. i have Black friends. i voted for Barack” folks.

Black people aren't mad enough. centuries of being this dope. this strong. this smart. this patient. this resilient. this humble. this friendly. this inviting. this hyphy. this loving and STILL ALWAYS GET THE SHORT END OF THE STICK. still getting killed at "home." still getting followed and harassed in Oakland like that ain't the house … Continue reading PSA to all “I’m not like them. i have Black friends. i voted for Barack” folks.

friends. how many of us have them?

how many of us are real friends? check up on your friends, y'all. make sure they're good. please. all it takes is a text, preferably a call, and a request to link up for dinner or lunch. we all have a life. but most of us aren't as busy as we like to think we … Continue reading friends. how many of us have them?

are you mad cus i’m asking you 21 questions….

are you capable of forgiving? will you be patient when things aren't going your way? how can i improve? are you strong and confident enough to tell your partner what ways they can improve as a partner? as a person? will you be patient when you're used to bright lights and situations are dim? are … Continue reading are you mad cus i’m asking you 21 questions….